Ive been friendly with this girl for a while, and we have really been hitting it off.
She brought me back presents from her thailand trip and called me a few times to chat and stuff, so I thought hey, she digs me. So the other night at a party sparks flew, we kissed a lot, you know the deal.
We decide to take a weekend away, and go diving on the east coast and camp there, obviously Im amped, she must like me!
On the way down, she holds my hand, now Im thinking, ok, it wasn't just the booze that made her kiss me the other night, sweet!
We hit the dive center, chill out all day, talking crap and having fun, but she wont come near me (I mean like hug, hold hands...)
That night we stayed at a friends house because we decided to was too hot to camp (bear in mind I live in a desert), so over to the house we go, drink beer, have a laugh and then to bed. She goes off to the bathroom, never to return, I fall asleep and wake up this morning thinking damn!? Did she sleep in that dudes room?
Naive little shit that I am, I dismissed it, and we chilled for most of the day there (today that is) I leave the room to talk on my phone, and when I come back in, I swear they had just been kissing. Shit I was angry, I just grabbed my bag, said sorry, I have to go, are you ok getting home with these guys tomorrow? Cool, bye. Walk out.
Tell me wtf happened? Is she just a whore?
rurounikenshin
Jun 1 2008, 07:32 AM
Sounds to me like you got played dude.
If she tries to explain it away just tell her to get f#cked.
You don't deserve to be treated like that and you don't deserve to be played either.
That's not fair and I am sure that you wouldn't do that to her or any other girl that you meet/know.
Paul
Jun 1 2008, 09:51 AM
QUOTE(Gitano @ Jun 1 2008, 04:25 PM)
Ok, chicks suck. Full stop.
just the way I like em
Valheru
Jun 1 2008, 10:08 PM
Fast: she was just lonely and you were around.
Not that she did not like you, but she probably held out for someone else. Unfortunately these things happen. Sorry dude, but thye best is to try and forget her and move on.
On the lighter side, try to be friendly to her though, she might have hot friends.
Nitro Guy
Jun 1 2008, 11:26 PM
complete BOLLOCKS you got played dude. sorry for that bud, chics are just as f'd up as guys they just pretend to be the better half of the species. F@#K her
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On the lighter side, try to be friendly to her though, she might have hot friends.
Screw the friends, revenge is sweeter...
Gitano
Jun 1 2008, 11:35 PM
She DOES have hot friends, she is an air hostess
Valheru
Jun 2 2008, 01:07 AM
QUOTE(Gitano @ Jun 2 2008, 08:35 AM)
She DOES have hot friends, she is an air hostess
Problem solved.....
Fishfly
Jun 2 2008, 01:11 AM
there's your problem... air hostess... never going to get anything more out from here besides a good "suck" like you said
but seriously. you should let this one go, she's probable just after some warmth and touch... nothing else, leave it there
Nitro Guy
Jun 2 2008, 02:39 AM
my bro is also cabin crew... been to a couple of their company functions F@#K Me even the married air hostesses are whores... dude cut your losses and get a
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good "suck"
as said
FruitLoop
Jun 3 2008, 01:08 AM
not that i want to defend the woman just cos im a girl ... but maybe theres a misunderstanding goin' on here id want to be 100% sure before jumping to conclusions ... assumption is the mother of all fuckups eh ... imean ... it sounds like she actually liked you .. it just doesnt make sense
Fishfly
Jun 3 2008, 02:00 AM
sounds like she did him then moved on to doing others. Makes perfect sense... dump the one model for a newer model or maybe she was after the friend all along and just opted for a free ride
Nitro Guy
Jun 3 2008, 02:08 AM
QUOTE(FruitLoop @ Jun 3 2008, 10:08 AM)
not that i want to defend the woman just cos im a girl ... but maybe theres a misunderstanding goin' on here id want to be 100% sure before jumping to conclusions ... assumption is the mother of all fuckups eh ... imean ... it sounds like she actually liked you .. it just doesnt make sense
How many in flight cabin crew do you know? i know quite a few they're all the same
Surge
Jun 3 2008, 02:20 AM
I would rather confront her. It dos seem as though she has been playing a dirty game, but even so, best to see how she reacts when you ask her about the happenings behind the closed door...
Fishfly
Jun 3 2008, 05:00 AM
I think it too little too late... the moment he walked out already said something...
god my cousin is a air hostess.. hope she doesn' do that......
Nitro Guy
Jun 3 2008, 05:31 AM
QUOTE(Fishfly @ Jun 3 2008, 02:00 PM)
I think it too little too late... the moment he walked out already said something...
god my cousin is a air hostess.. hope she doesn' do that......
Ignorance is bliss fishy
Valheru
Jun 3 2008, 05:57 AM
QUOTE(Fishfly @ Jun 3 2008, 02:00 PM)
my cousin is a air hostess.. hope she doesn' do that......
Can i have her number?
Paul
Jun 3 2008, 06:53 AM
every single air stewardess, cabin crew member or air steward was either a flaming homo or a skank.
rurounikenshin
Jun 3 2008, 10:01 AM
I wouldn't waste my time talking to her again.
I think she made herself pretty damned clear already.
No excuse will be good enough to excuse her behaviour.
As for her reasons?
She's just a cheap slut.
Heir_of_Isildur
Jun 3 2008, 11:40 AM
I've got to say that I agree with Fruitloop here.
There's only one way to handle relationships, and that's with proper conversation, no assumptions and trust (once you're in there).
Gitano
Jun 4 2008, 01:38 AM
Thanks guys
Im going with the cheap slut view, its all good. Not torn up about it any more, I was hecticly confused for a couple of days, but now I kind of think, dude, wtf, its just some random, not the love of your life, so chill.
I know what you mean Fruitloop, but like you said it doesn't make sense, like women in general I find
Valheru
Jun 4 2008, 07:15 AM
Do you realize that you took advice from a bunch of geeks who probably spend more time on the interwebs than in "real life"
Surge
Jun 4 2008, 07:29 AM
LOL. Well put, Val.
FruitLoop
Jun 4 2008, 08:43 AM
i dont trust women... most of my friends are guys
at least with men you know exactly what they want heh heh heh
Nitro Guy
Jun 4 2008, 10:57 PM
QUOTE(Valheru @ Jun 4 2008, 04:15 PM)
Do you realize that you took advice from a bunch of geeks who probably spend more time on the interwebs than in "real life"
Speak for yourself bud.... i do recall a certain someone trying hook up dates on an interweb forum ***No Names mentioned*** LOL but yeah soooo true
Fishfly
Jun 5 2008, 03:34 AM
hahaha yes val speak for yourself... for someone that's been after a interweb user's sister...
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