Hello everyone i really need help...i had relationship a year and a half... and right on my b-day...my gf
said she want to have time to think about...us....becose we had some problems i lied her for some stupid thing...
but we were very close and too much in love...now it's being a month since that....and we aren't together...
she said to me she don't want to be with me now and for in the future she doesnt knows but ....she told me to not expect anything to happend....i talked with some friends of hers and they said she mentioned me offen....i tryed to not msg her or call her and she told them I loved her then how come i didnt called her....something like that...
but she simply doesnt wanna talk about getting back...also she didnt wanted to open to her friends and talk about me...she send me sms for valentine that she loves me but...she is so ....pigheaded i dont know what to say....
and now i dont know should i keep smsing should i keep calling i dont know what to do but i dont wanna lose her....and when it comes to that when i think of her or see her i get very upset sometimes i cant even take breath properly....

please some advices
thanks

What was this stupid lie?

"Of course I was never a woman"?

Seriously though, you need to sort that lying thing out. There's no point trying to fix things based on bullshit.

Tell her you want to apologize and you'd like to tell her face-to-face. Take her somewhere nice and sort it out.

he cheated on her?

pish chicks... so fulll of shit. they wnat you yet they don't want to be with you yet they talk about how you don't call when she says don't call... such contridictions

what you should do is actually go speak to her and sort out your problems else move on and *evil* date her friends! *evil off* jking

Sort out your thoughts then go talk to her in person. Through an electronic medium the message won't get through. So try talking to her face to face.

And give her space for a couple of weeks. Keep calling her and she will keep on ignoring you. Wait for a couple of weeks and then call her.

Also, how old are you? You might think age is not important, but it actually makes a difference.

Tnx everyone...i'm 19 and she's 18...the stupid lie was on how much drinks i had .... i said 2 and i had 4 that was the stupid lie .... i'm smsing her that i miss her should i do that or wait
2-3 weeks to chill and then try to talk???

Thx once again

Did you do anything else besides having 2 more drinks? That shouldn't be as big an issue for you, just apologise and say you had more than you originally said. If she wants to break it off because of something that trivial its not meant to be man

I'd hold off on sending the sms, she might think you are being overly possesive. hold on a few days and then just go talk to her

good luck

2 drinks, not a chance, there has to be something else behind it. Either something more serious or she is using it as an excuse.

Are you a recovering alcaholic? I could see there being an issue there...

Lol no ofcorse i'm not recovering alcocholic, the thing is i lied before that happend...
again a stupid thing foolish reason... and she said thats not goood....but the fact why i lied
was i didnt wanted us to fight and i tought it'll stop the fight but it made it worse....
today i went on a walk but i didnt talked withj her about that we just shared...what we did
the time we're separeted....

Dude i'm 20 and what i've realised is that there's 1001 possible girls that you could "really love" thing is its hard to break the tie with your current one. Let me give you a piece of advise.

She said she wants time to think, which probably means she's confused which is typical of girls and guys that age.

If she doesn't wanna come to the party soon then cut your losses dude, chances are she's gonna find someone else while she's still thinking if someone else isn't the reason she's "thinking about it" happened to me TWICE.

I've learnt this much which may seem a little harsh, but dont let gf's find out things like that in the first case rather omit then resort to lies whenever possible...

PS

If it were me, I'd get a sidepiece just in case, helps ease the pain should she she give you the middle finger and no theres no attachment if your gf comes back...

If i was you i would arrange to meet her for a drink and explain how u feel that u miss her and that you want a second chance!! or if worst comes to the worst put the shits up her and say yu think u my have found somebody else.