Hi everybody,

I'm just new here but I have a question for the girls !

Do we have to wear what we love - especially regarding lingerie/underwear - or shoud we better wear what our boyfriend or men love ???

Thanks for your answer

Wearing what he loves is fine for special occasions.

I wouldn't put up with him telling you what to wear all the time though - unless he's willing to finance his taste 100%.

You need to wear what makes you feel good, comfortable and/or sexy.

Mr rurounikenshin has it on the dot, good advice

I thank you.

less is more

(and a little commando out in public every so often never hurt anyone)

I agree with all of the dudes above me. I always wear what makes me comfortable etc... however when it is a special occassion, or something important for her, then I will wear something that she likes. Although, surely you were wearing stuff you like when you met each other, so he should like what you like already. hehe.

When it comes to clothes and underwear, I always wear things I feel comfortable and sexy in... Although there are times when I do ask my boyfriend if he has any special requests in terms of underwear or clothes... its all about balance and spoiling your man so now and then, like with a mini fashion show where he gets to pick the clothes and you model it for him!

he doesnt care what underwear you have on, he just wants you out of it anyway

true dat but what fun is it to get an unwrapped present for your birthday?

half the fun is opening it

I don't think it would be fun ripping up a R500 underwear then again I'm saying that cos I'm so flat broke

Ripping underwear off is hot, but she only lets me rip em when they are getting older. It is still sexy tho.

Out in public with almost nothing on I must say is a turn off for me. For some reason it just seems trashy/ skanky to me.

I much prefer someone dressed more classy

i like a bit of skank

she must dress up in fishnet stocks for me once in a while.

fishnet stocking??? I dunno that just doesn't do it for me

maybe fishnet stocking gets attributed to prostitues...

exactly

Why can't a woman wear something sexy and still be comfortable? Any woman should feel comfortable no matter what. Hopefully, her man will think she looks good no matter what she's wearing.

So how do you explain high heels?

That one I can't really explain. There are some women who are comfortable wearing them and some who are not. I am one who does not like to wear them at all. The only time I wear them is if I absolutely have to.

Hi,

Very off topic, but flaco46 that game as your avatar is probably -THE- game I spent my childhood playing. I will never forget it and I thank you for allowing me to see it once more

Sorry for the interruption!

high heels can be comfortable.. it depends on the shoe... i love wearing high heels though... and personally i dont think any woman will be able to pull off being sexy if she isnt comfortable.. no use dressing up in a nurse's outfit and you look like you going to die any minute... thats not sexy thats just plain awkward and consequently a turn off!

and i do think dressing up for your guy adds to the whole sexiness thing.. its about showing him that you taking the extra time and effort to do something special for him.. if its just not your thing to do all that, then you shouldnt be with a guy that wants that... i'm not saying dress up for him all the time, or only wear clothes that he likes.. but just so now and then i think its nice to spoil your man by wearing something that you know he likes seeing you in (and he will only like seeing you in it, if he can see that you enjoying yourself and comfortable!)

yeah.. thats just my one and half cents...

oh and warpath: i totally agree! you must be a lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed!

oh so you must be the Neanderthal that was living next door to me! every day I saw him he was playing that stupid game



OMG what am I seeing? Warpath + sushi + bed =

Personally I think dress with that you are comfortable in is the way to go... anything less than that is overkill

Ha ha that game was the best. Couple that with Castlevania and Mortal Kombat then yeah it must have been