..suggest me to do?
Briefly, we've been together for a few months, we live in different states but so far everything is going great, we manage to catch up pretty often and we love each other.
however, maybe this is just my sensation... she started to act 'less' interested in me, standing on the decrease in sms's, and shorter phone calls.
Now, i know how to behave in these situations, not to have emotional overreactions or start to tell her to call me more often because this would just generate the opposite reaction.
I know that if she starts to understand i'm becoming needy, less self confident, then for sure her attraction will decrease drastically.
So i'm witnessing this decrease in sms's and phonecalls without knowing what to do beside acting self confident, normal and funny.
But it's pretty hard.
what do you guys recomend?
thank you!
Full Version: i feel less interest from her..
one of two things could be causing this:
1. She's found someone better than what you have atm
2. She feels the need to speak to you less due to her busy schedule which could mean See 1. or she's lost interest with the current relentionship.
This is how you should look at to see if there are significant changes.
If things are getting less and less exciting (i.e the SMS, Phone calls) then it's time to ask her - it's possible that the phone bills are eating away such that she can't afford it.
Monitor this situation over the next couple of weeks and if it's so happens to what I mentioned in 1. above then it's time to cut your lossess and move on.
1. She's found someone better than what you have atm
2. She feels the need to speak to you less due to her busy schedule which could mean See 1. or she's lost interest with the current relentionship.
This is how you should look at to see if there are significant changes.
If things are getting less and less exciting (i.e the SMS, Phone calls) then it's time to ask her - it's possible that the phone bills are eating away such that she can't afford it.
Monitor this situation over the next couple of weeks and if it's so happens to what I mentioned in 1. above then it's time to cut your lossess and move on.
Definately going to be getting a lot of OMG: Move on answers from us 
My advice would be as Fish said: tell her how you feel and ask questions. For me honesty is the best policy (although it hasn't worked all that well for me
) The worst thing that could happen is she says: "I've found someone else" (which you would have found out LATER) or you'll sort it out.
My advice would be as Fish said: tell her how you feel and ask questions. For me honesty is the best policy (although it hasn't worked all that well for me
) The worst thing that could happen is she says: "I've found someone else" (which you would have found out LATER) or you'll sort it out.
sleep with her best friend!
QUOTE(Paul @ Jun 11 2007, 01:23 PM) 
sleep with her best friend!
Lol.....your an asshole paul! lol
QUOTE
sleep with her best friend!
or better yet her sister!
or your sister fishy
Rofl @ Paul
Sleep with either her sister or her best friend? What in the nether hells is wrong with you guys? That's the worst advice I've ever heard. Sleep with both of them at the same time. Then, if you still have energy, fishy has a sister
r you ppl'sQUOTE(Paul @ Jun 11 2007, 03:23 PM)
sleep with her best friend!
Would have expected nothing less than that response
QUOTE(liamfoster @ Jun 10 2007, 07:50 AM)
..suggest me to do?
Briefly, we've been together for a few months, we live in different states but so far everything is going great, we manage to catch up pretty often and we love each other.
however, maybe this is just my sensation... she started to act 'less' interested in me, standing on the decrease in sms's, and shorter phone calls.
Now, i know how to behave in these situations, not to have emotional overreactions or start to tell her to call me more often because this would just generate the opposite reaction.
I know that if she starts to understand i'm becoming needy, less self confident, then for sure her attraction will decrease drastically.
So i'm witnessing this decrease in sms's and phonecalls without knowing what to do beside acting self confident, normal and funny.
But it's pretty hard.
what do you guys recomend?
thank you!
Briefly, we've been together for a few months, we live in different states but so far everything is going great, we manage to catch up pretty often and we love each other.
however, maybe this is just my sensation... she started to act 'less' interested in me, standing on the decrease in sms's, and shorter phone calls.
Now, i know how to behave in these situations, not to have emotional overreactions or start to tell her to call me more often because this would just generate the opposite reaction.
I know that if she starts to understand i'm becoming needy, less self confident, then for sure her attraction will decrease drastically.
So i'm witnessing this decrease in sms's and phonecalls without knowing what to do beside acting self confident, normal and funny.
But it's pretty hard.
what do you guys recomend?
thank you!
Well don't just jump to conclusions!!
Communication is the best to find out what the truth is. So go anead and talk to her!!
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