Fishy the living in separate countries point is a very valid one in my opinion.
I dumped someone cause I called him whilst he was in London to hear a female voice going "<insert name here> your bath water is ready". I only went

and excused myself from the coversation.
This lady does NOT share.
QUOTE(rurounikenshin @ Dec 16 2005, 11:52 PM)

I was recently dumped because the chicky claimed she felt threatened by my ex...
Even though my ex is in ct and im in jhb, we don't talk (and probably wont ever again)
Rurounkenshin, I'm not saying it was the case But perhaps the new lady just failed to articulate her fears properly - maybe she felt unable to 'compete' with your ex as you had over a period of time only been telling her wonderfully amazing things about 'the ex' that left her feeling inadequate (even though that wasn't your intent)?
Or perhaps your friends or family were doing the above?
Or maybe you showed her pictures of the pretty ex or even the two of you together and the new lady felt a bit jealous and not 'as pretty'? (*big tip* NEVER show pictures of yourself and 'the ex' to a new partner- woman are just sensitive that way)
OR maybe she thought that the reason you guys split up over wasn't all that serious and knowing how in love you and your ex were she reckoned that it could very easily be patched up given a time lapse.
If You feel the two of you had a rather good thing going - go on, give her a call!
At least ask her if any of the above apply and if so talk about it?
It's Xmas after all young man!