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hiccupsie
What is the shallowest reason you ever had or used to dump a girl / boyfriend?

Hmmm I'd have to admit to dumping someone cause he kept calling me 'meisiekind' and used to listen to only afrikaans singers like 'Poena' and stuff sad.gif I just aint That proudly South African.

What's yours?
Evernight
Woah did this topic mislead me. I thought we were discussing the problems involved with having a dump in a bowl with very little or no water...
nCryption
I once broke up with a chick on her birthday because I couldnt stand her braces. and Birthday meant happy birthday kiss

ok so I was like 12 or something

Origin
I was dumped on valentines day sad.gif
hiccupsie
QUOTE(Evernight @ Dec 15 2005, 10:38 PM) *

Woah did this topic mislead me. I thought we were discussing the problems involved with having a dump in a bowl with very little or no water...


erm Evernight hunny if you're having 'problems' with the above maybe you should consider joining forums like www.helpmemovemybowels.com.

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W@RP@T}{
I've never dumped anyone in my life, not my style.
BlackRazor
I dumped my last one because she was cheating on me with a 32 year old with kids.... AND I HATE KIDS.

Shallow I know...
Evernight
QUOTE(BlackRazor @ Dec 16 2005, 06:59 AM) *

I dumped my last one because she was cheating on me with a 32 year old with kids.... AND I HATE KIDS.

Shallow I know...


This may be OT but WOW is it hard to take your posts serious when you have a "Girl on Girl Karmasutra" champion sticker
rurounikenshin
I was recently dumped because the chicky claimed she felt threatened by my ex...

Even though my ex is in ct and im in jhb, we don't talk (and probably wont ever again)

I told her that I thought it was a complete load of BS then walked out the restaurant with out paying for supper.
Fishfly
hahahahhaaha good one there everknight biggrin.gif

I must say I have been good I only dumped my ex cos she was overseas biggrin.gif
hiccupsie
Fishy the living in separate countries point is a very valid one in my opinion.

I dumped someone cause I called him whilst he was in London to hear a female voice going "<insert name here> your bath water is ready". I only went eek.gif and excused myself from the coversation.

This lady does NOT share.





QUOTE(rurounikenshin @ Dec 16 2005, 11:52 PM) *

I was recently dumped because the chicky claimed she felt threatened by my ex...

Even though my ex is in ct and im in jhb, we don't talk (and probably wont ever again)


Rurounkenshin, I'm not saying it was the case But perhaps the new lady just failed to articulate her fears properly - maybe she felt unable to 'compete' with your ex as you had over a period of time only been telling her wonderfully amazing things about 'the ex' that left her feeling inadequate (even though that wasn't your intent)?

Or perhaps your friends or family were doing the above?

Or maybe you showed her pictures of the pretty ex or even the two of you together and the new lady felt a bit jealous and not 'as pretty'? (*big tip* NEVER show pictures of yourself and 'the ex' to a new partner- woman are just sensitive that way)

OR maybe she thought that the reason you guys split up over wasn't all that serious and knowing how in love you and your ex were she reckoned that it could very easily be patched up given a time lapse.

If You feel the two of you had a rather good thing going - go on, give her a call!

At least ask her if any of the above apply and if so talk about it?

It's Xmas after all young man! tongue.gif
Evernight
sounds to me like she needed an excuse. Good riddens
rurounikenshin
Funny this is I never mentioed my ex until she asked about my previous gf's.

I told her that there was only 1 really serious one in the recent past.
(8 years is serious right?)

I never mentioned her again.

I think this chicky was looking for a reason to end things and she didn't have the guts to come out to my face and say it.

I'm sorry. But If I have something to say - I say it.
I don't believe in being pretentious or beating around the bush.

I also don't believe in second chances. I gave my ex too many of those and she threw it in my face every chance she got.

SO, even if she did decide to call me to try and patch things up I'd tell her where she can stick it.

Honesty costs nothing.
Gitano
Hahaha, honesty can cost a whole lot when used at the wrong times, believe me, I have seen it start fights, end relationships, end friendships etc.

I dumped my last girlfriend for being an idiot, does that count? I mean literally stupid... Used to piss me off so much. If I screwed up, and she got angry with me for some or other reason, I was able t bullshit my way out of it withought even trying.

Im now with an amazing girl who is intelligent, no chance I can bullshit anything here, and strangely, I prefer it.
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Gitano send me her number tongue.gif

I need a stupid chick that doesn't give me shit tongue.gif

Badavis
Best way to brake up: Face to Face
Worst way to brake up: Over the phone
Even worst way: SMS
Takes the cake tongue.gif: PCM (Please Call Me)
cyfermaster
QUOTE
Gitano send me her number

I need a stupid chick that doesn't give me shit


She is in dubaii W@RP@T}{.
Heir_of_Isildur
QUOTE(Badavis @ Jan 4 2006, 07:54 AM) *

Best way to brake up: Face to Face
Worst way to brake up: Over the phone
Even worst way: SMS
Takes the cake tongue.gif: PCM (Please Call Me)


Please tell me that's never happened to anyone... Please call me and then get dumped sad.gif
Fishfly
hahahaha
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Takes the cake tongue.gif: PCM (Please Call Me)
does take the cake... but what about getting your friend to do the dumping?
Gitano
Oh man, thats bad.....

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Send her a please call me while your on the job with someone else, think she will get the point instantly.

No discussion after that.
Carrots
You are a bunch of nasty people!! tongue.gif
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