Hey People,


How do i overcome my Fear of appproaching woman, let me give you
an example.....

i am at a club/bar/etc..... and i see this Beautiful woman standing there with her
friends. I think about approaching her and then all the EXCUSES kick in like.......

- maybe she is not interested
- i will get rejected
- she has bf
- there is too many people watching me
- I don't know what to say to her
- and the list goes on and on etc..........

Now PLEASE DON"T tell me that i should drink more
i don't wanna approach a woman DRUNK

So GUYS and GIRLS give me some valuable advice that i can actually USE

the key is not to approach women drunk, but to approach drunk women. Hit on some easy catches, get your game confidence up and then go after the ones you want...

end of the day the worst thing that can happen is they say no. Well... you could wet your pants and they could all laugh at you and then the internet could catch on and start a fad like moshgirl but peeboy.

But you probably have nothing to worry about. Just wear extra underwear

Just be yourself, be confident and go up to her and say hello or whatever.

Going together with a friend at first might be easier (not so personal), worst that can happen is a no and then you can go try someone else.

I believe, THAT, chicks have an undeniable craving for a guy with balls of steel. If you go up to a girl and tell her you'll rock her crazy and she needs to come have a drink with you at the bar you'll probably hit it off..

no one can so no to someone with SO MUCH CONFIDENCE that it just oozes out like crap after eating at Bites.

I suppose what I'm trying to say is this: confidence is the most important thing you need to focus on.

Firstly, you have to pick the right place to look for women. Don't go to a crowded bar with blaring music, try a more chilled place where you can have a conversation. Pool bars work well since you can always ask a girl for a game of pool.

My opinion is, if you dont' ask, you don't get. The general mentality is that guys ask the girls out, and you've got to realise that by hitting on a stranger you have nothing to lose, so JUST DO IT. Trust me, sometimes all the girl needs is a green light

Couldn't have said it better myself

In my opinion it is all about confidence. Think about it this way,
if you dont ask her.... how will you ever know????
Besides, by the simple act of you asking her, you have payed her
a very big complement so you're in with a chance!

Best of luck!...

i have realised that it's better to cease seize the moment and answer the questions than to miss an opportunity because i was too shy

just go for it next time and you'll surprise yourself - it only gets easier

edit: bad typo

just go ahead and do it!

focus on counting the no's

use reverse psychology on yourself and say that your goal is to get 50 no's

you'll score at least 10 chicks before you get to 50 anyway unless you look like freddy kreuger had a child with roseanne bar

and just do it! remember to rather want to have said "I am glad I did" rather than "I wish I had"

I speak from experience

The honest truth is that you may make an ass of yourself, or get rejected many times, but when you eventually do get the girl you'll look back and be damn glad that you went out on a limb.

I have a friend who is honestly one of the most arrogant guys you'll ever meet, and he's completely cocky with women. When we go to a pub or club, he'll split off from the rest of the group and go looking for women to hit on: as soon as he finds one and buys her a drink he'll state (in no uncertain terms) that he's interested, and you can be sure that with an attitude like that he rarely goes home alone. Not that I'm condoning a massive string of one-night stands but you get the idea


I hope you mean sieze the moment else he's not going anywhere fast

Approach them from behind, with a Chloroform soaked rag

When I was a noob, a mate once told me this, and once I figured it out what it meant it all became clear to me. Point is u need to figure it out for yourself

One of my more successfull friends got a different chick home at least every second night. But when you take a closer look, you see that he fails at least 5 times a night.

I call it the shotgun technique (Im too shy to use it myself)
You try to hit so many, that at least one has to be caught in the crosfire.
Try to get them alone, and away from the pack.

And some wise words from a friend of mine:

Guys and Girls......Thank You

i appreciate your Replies. I will go out and DO IT









PS: If You Think of anything else, just post it


Cheers

what you going out for to do her? or it?????


don't forget the big boot space some duct tape and most important of all vaseline

Dont forget to stick a sock in your pants.
Oh and remember good posture...broken back slouch signifies that a previous woman has already broken you in and will make you more attractive to the opposite sex.
Also dont forget to wash your cheese off and at least wear black to hide your deformities. I do.

With any luck you'll get a girl that will use and abuse you until you have your very own dumpster and crack pipe.

BOTH of THEM

Behold ladies and gents, a new man is born...
Remember to wear a raincoat mkay?

OMFG!!!

I think that was the funniest post i have read today!!

LOOOOOOL!!!!

And here I thought it was the sock in the pants...

Ye dude. The main thing you are scared of is her giving you bat. So like with any other fear, you need to confront it. If you were scared of heights, going to the top of a building and getting used to the feeling might cure you.

Go out with the intention of getting bat so that you won't fear it anymore. After that, you'll be the biggest playa in the world. I've met some guys who are so arrogant they see the "pickup situation" as them giving some poor girl a chance in life. If the girl chooses to bat them, its her loss. Quite an extreme attitude, but they are never lonely.

And btw, when a girl gives you bat, it's her that ends up feeling a little embarassed. You come out looking better than all the other guys in the room that didn't try, but maybe just not the one for her.

(PS: I'm with you BlackRazor. "Wash your cheese off" is the single most disturbing thing I've read all week)

That is SO true.

I agree with all of this information.

Good luck and guys remember to have fun - most men become relatively obsessed with 'getting' a girlfriend sooner or later. And, honestly we all know that desperation is the worlds worst cologne

Besides if a woman can See how desperate you are, she's going to be thinking either one of two things a) What is so horribly wrong with him that no one else is interested Or b) Perhaps I'll charge him the discounted rate I trust that That is not the desired result.

" What is so horribly wrong with him that no one else is interested "


No comment.

BlackRazor, you disappoint me

Leave me alone its christmas time and I have too many young boys on my lap..."And what do you want little boy? Oh ok I'll slap your soft bottom...muhahahaaa"

I thought women love desperate men? Easier to get them to buy gifts and do all the stuff that makes a females life easier-low esteem yada yada... AND and this is really a good point...no really... If men werent desperate there would be no ugly people. Think about it...Rosanne Barr would never have gotten a man. Point is: Evolution calls for drastic measures and so does procreation.

It's easy...

You stick you hand in you pants and grab your #### like a man, walk up the the woman you like and say:

"This is what I got - do you want it or not?"

Works everytime!

Promise!

ahahahahaha !

Now unless you're hanging out with BlackRazor in Brakpan I'm sure you'll only experience a followed by fits of laughter

But let me know how that works for you over this holiday season

Young boys on your lap? OMFG. Perv!

Lmao

I always wondered where exactly is this brakpan? Its in the Triple B area so I guess I'll need my passport and judging from the rest of Ms hiccupsie's remaining posts women must be really desperate or mutated.
I even know of a tribe that hides rubber phalluses in their bedrooms as a sign of fertility...I never understood the whole battery addon but I assume that part of the marketing and consumer tactics.