Guest_Confused_*
Oct 3 2005, 02:39 AM
So - If you truly love someone; in fact you love them so much so that you have compromised your views on just about everything in order to prove to them that you really do feel that way YET
They do things which really bother and hurt you but no amount of explaining seems to achieve anything - Can they really care about you in the way they 'say' they do or are you just a sucker for punishment?
In my mind loving someone means taking their feelings into consideration no?
KL35K88
Oct 3 2005, 03:00 AM
i recently got a very good answer, regarding this...
A relationship is 20% HARD work (this includes compromise), 80% fun or it just comes fromself.
You can't change who you are, yes you can change your point of view or thinking... but in the end... al these small things that bother you now, must either be talked over / sorted out... or the next question will be...
Am I willing to take this or live with it for the rest of the relationship, or not?