Ok for all the ladies who watched Oprah yesterday.... I was watching the show and alot of the things that Greg said made so much sense!
What do you ladies think? And what do you guys think? (yes i know there are rome of you out there who watch Nprah!!)

Although I did not agree with the advice he gave the long term engaged couple... I dnnt think that m`rriage is a proof of love between two people... I don't think its a measure of love either... Who says you must get married if you in love? If two people think that it is a measure of love and want to ex`ress their love by marrying, then hey that's cool...

However, in my opinion, many people, ladies in particular think that marriage is a must if your bf loves you and you've been dating for a while... I'm not saying I dont think people shouldnt get married if they in love... i mean there is obviously a problem if you are engaged for let's say 10 years or something.. And I would love to get married one day if the time and the person is right...

But why must you pressure a man into marrying you? Is not his love enough? Is not him being there and treating you well and loving you, enough? Why must he show his love for you by marriage? Its the men that are pressured or guilt-tripped into marriage that are the ones that are never happy and looking for attention outside the marriage...

I think that some woman want to get married as it is a form of closure. They don't feel that their man will run off with some other bird if they are married.... If they are not married they sometimes feel that there is a chance that their man will just bugger off... NOTE I SAID I THINK.

I agree with most of what you said Treshi.

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