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Wow. That's hardcore. I'd freak out. That really is hardcore. Did HE know it was you the whole time ? If so he's deceived you intentionally.

Ha ha, that happened to me once, my ex told me she was a fellow student at high school but i caught her out when she didn't know the colour of the doors at the school. As we were talking about on the other thread, this is the darker side of internet animosity.

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you're ex needs to seek psychiatric help fast.

he's the typical stalker/serial killer waiting to happen.

Woah. So this guy did all this purposefully, in some attempt to prove to you that you two could still get on well, and that you should take him back?

That's pretty pathetic of him.
Well, the best way to get back at a guy is to insult his ego, so tell him that you think he:

a) has the emotional mentality of a little boy
b) was the worst sex you ever had (if you had sex with him)
c) has a tiny dick
d) all of the above

Then tell him that if he had any balls at all he would have come to you and made an effort to win you back in person, regardless of how you might have reacted. Tell him you don't wanna be around cowardly little boys and never speak to him again.

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It would be interesting to go and view all his responses while you were telling him how he hurt you.

It's refreshing to know that there are still girls out there who will break up with a guy EVEN if he has a huge penis.

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you guys back together?

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Hmmm,

I have a different perspective on the invasion of privacy issue.

That being the "invader"

Bear in mind though, that this was a MISTAKE!!!!

See, I was at my gf's house on a saturday early last year. She was getting her stuff ready to study for a varsity exam when she asked me to fetch a book for her.

So I go into her room, see a book on her dresser marked "English Assignments"

Not thinking twice I open it and whadda ya know, it's her dairy! And what was on that page was incredibly personal!!!

It caused alotta shyte in the relationship coz she thought that I read it on purpose.

I have always felt guilty about reading those few lines, and I have never been forgiven. Well, not really.

But like I said to her, a dairy or any sort of journal shouldn't be left lying around where just anyone could read it, especially whith such personal details inside. AND IT SHOULDN'T BE MARK ENGLISH ASSIGNMENTS! (Some of her varisty subjects are very interesting)

Just thought I would share.

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Well, we talk about everything.

There are no secrets between us...

It was like the beginning of last year.

Alot has happened since then.

Eventually though - I'm sure she'll understand.

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Holy Cripe Angel thats is really freaky. I mean like REALLY freaky.

Ummm angel4everyoung you sound like there's some else you failed to mentioned... are you hoping something would happen again? This isn't going to go away if you ignore it. If there's something else you'll have to sort it out else it's gonna hit you like a ton of bricks!

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That's good, but scary stuff there, Guess this is a good reason why I keep outta of chat rooms... I perfer ones where I can speak utter garbage and vice versa - good stress reliever. Kinda like the shout box in this forum.

rorouniKenshin: just remember

if she ever breaks up with you, get the book and finish reading it

and someone explain to me what is up with a diary. it is the first, VERY first rule of life. NEVER put anything in writing. if you got to do it, lock it, or put it on a pc and password protect it. dont be an idiot now...i would says tuff it and read it as well. tell her she needs to trust you if you are going to be in a relationship and she should be able to share anythign.

ninja mo that would never even my gf gives me a hard time when I read her SMS before she does...

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Most people do not realize that this is the most important thing in a relationship....communication.....

How would the other person know what he/she did wrong if you go into silence mode and not tell them what they did wrong....

There is another side to this action on his side...maybe he is not weird, pshyco, but, maybe he just loves you to pieces, would do something radical to voice how he feels.....

Remember.....there is 3 sides to a story...always.....Your side, his side...and the truth......



Mmmm...maybe he should trust you a bit more.....it's nothing to do with honesty, more with insecurity.......

You cannot be responsible or control other people's actions, it is really what you reply to those sms's that matter!!


Br,
MrBean.

MrBean it seems you're on the same level as i am! I've been dumped so many times with out a reason or even a attempt of telling me what i did wrong!

A Friend of myne once said to me after he & a girl broke up that he just wish they would open there mouths & tell us what we do wrong so we don't make the same mistakes again, with them or someone else...

Maybe some of the lady's on the board can shed a little lite on why they don't tell the guy's the reasons for breaking up...

Hey BadBoyTazz,
Nope, I've been married for the past 12.5 years, no such problems for me about a girl dumping me..... Let's hope not so anyway....lol...

It is just something you tend to observe, especially in married life, that you need to have proper communication with your partner, you need to be able to listen, when required, but you also need to say what you feel, and the other person must listen....

When you are married you can't just break up with your partner, it is a lot of waisted time, money, and a lot of real hurt......that is why you must enjoy life when young, at school, at only accept responsibility for real commitment when you are mature enough to do so, when life has equipped you properly.....hypothetically speaking of course.....

This doesn't mean to go out and get every girl you meet in your bed, it means that when you are ready to take a girl to bed, you must be ready to take responsibility for your actions, you must do it because you feel something for her, are ready to support her, both emotionally and physically.....are willing to spent the rest of your days with her.......

You must be willing to give up taking to bed any other girl ever again.....if you are ready to do all these things, then you can say you love her.....


I guess what I am trying to say is love is something different as to what you imagine it to be when you are school.....then you think it is stars in the eye,blood rushing through your veins etc.....

It is that, but a lot more as well.....much more.......

Br,
MrBean.

See , Teh internet is a Ev0l place ....

Time to get out of the dark rooms and meet people face to face

hey Jagged,
So true......anyway, you guys are welcome to look me up when you around Pavilion Westville sometime...we could have a beer....public place of course...lol...

Br,
MrBean.

angel4everyoung it's not exactly my fault, I read one or two sms because she wasn't there to read it herself, and I told her about the sms... it's still kept on her phone with the exception that it's been opened...

Nope, I'm sorta like a hermit. I live alone.

I see people all the time I just don't let them into my life. They go through my possesions occasionally but that about as much of my privacy that has ever been invaded. My mind (not gonna say soul) is my own and no-one gets a glimpse of it.

Yeah. But i dont really care. Coz I dont really care what other people think of me, because i know whats true or not.

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angel, grow a backbone ffs. if you miss your "friend", buy a dog.

thats rich coming from you acronym

It sounds as if you are trying to make this whole shock thing go away by just ignoring it and giong on with ur life. In some cases this might work, but in most cases it is better to face the problem head on. But this guy sounds very sly for actually creating a false identity and manipulating u. This cannot go unpunnished!

only invasion of privacy are bastards (former work collegues) who visit me in the smoking section of mugg n bean and dont go AWAY!
I hate attention...some may call it stalking.

Well the way I see it is this:

If I knew that my chick was online chatting all the time I'd like to see what she gets upto.
I'd also go undercover online to see what she's doing. Perhaps take it as far as a week but then burst the bubble.
I think it would be a pretty funny joke to play one someone and would probably get a slap on the wrist

But to carry on doing it for awahile means:

a. He wanted to know things about u you wouldnt tell him.
b. He didnt know how to brake it to u therefore it got waay too prolonged.
c. He's a fuckn psycho. bwahaha!

Point is why where u chatting to guys online when u had a boyfriend?

wtf? You can't chat to other ppl online when you have a partner?

Might as well just lock yourself in a padded room with no windows then.

back in the old days...yeah chattin on irc was the escape from the obnoxious friend.

...he sounds like a multiple personality disorder - psycho freak!
Sorry things didn't work out...
I hope you can sort yourself out and move on... no use living in the past, longing for a psycho internet buddy...

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yeah when there are so many to chose from. Ranging from eccentric to just plain sick to lovable...like ME! Naah bugger off.

No it doesnt.
Chatting is chatting and posting is posting..



I think I'd prefer my g/f to spend a little bit more time on me..

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You bought ur ex phonecards? LMAO wat kind of guy gets his g/f to buy him phonecards! Well ur a kewl chick for doing that anyhow..

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Millennia, depends on the 'nature' of your online chattings - and lets be honest now, if male and female chat That much on a daily basis, most of it, sooner or later ends up being flirtatious - human nature.

I fail to see why I would want to spend time online talking to some Random man if I could be spending time working on or enhancing my REAL relationship. If you are spending more of your time Online with a 'potential partner' or 'cute Friend' than in the Real world with your Real partner, you have a problem.

As angel4everyoung so perfectly illustrated...

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*noted*

That is so true. I would never want to meet somebody online (you are actually just building on communication) which is good but, also bad because you cannot see the person for who they truly are.
Meeting somebody and getting to know them while you are actually with them is so much more enjoyable and brings more meaning to a relationship than just typing.